As
promised last month I am going to write about sex. Think of it as my
early Christmas gift to you:) Not just because sexual energy is the
most powerful energy we have. And also not just because a wonderful
client has given me permission to share her story with you. But
simply because of the beauty of connectedness that this topic brings.
Case
Story
I
have a lovely client who, among other things, told me that her
anticipation and enjoyment of sex had significantly reduced and that
she found she had become quite evasive when her husband showed any
physical affection because, who knows – maybe he will want more..
and more. The situation was very stressful, because she wanted to be
intimate with her husband, but she simply could feel almost nothing
anymore and sex had become a tremendous source of frustration. And
she was told that she should simply accept that she was getting older
and changes were starting. Maybe.
We
decided to look at the issue anyway. Before we started a session, we
discussed that maybe the issue is related to changes in her endocrine
system (and i have homeopathic vials of quite an amount of different
hormones to do corrections), or possibly related to overall stress
and simply some invigorating supplement was needed. However –
during the session an issue concerning self-realization came up. By
further 'investigation' it became clear that she always had to have a
lot of people around her whom she could call 'friends' and who loved
to be around her, but her private moments were periods of boredom
which ended with watching TV. Somewhere along life's road she had
lost interest in her own self and no longer enjoyed her own company
or took pleasure in private and intimate moments. By working on this
issue, we were able to make big improvements in her primary concern.
The
“Moral”
So
– why am I writing all this right before Christmas? Well, like
Christmas, much of the joy of sex comes from the sense of
anticipation. And, like London or Christmas, if we are tired of sex
we're maybe tired of ourselves or life. But there are easy ways to
rekindle that energy and zest for life, Christmas and sex. The beauty
of this story (as with many others) is that the solution to problems
may lie in completely different areas from where they manifest! Do
you think that your hormones are playing tricks with you or slowly
dying? Eh, check your life, your attitudes, and take steps to
re-charge your life quite literally! If you find it difficult to
manage this yourself, there are plenty of simple techniques you can
use or people, like myself, who can help.
Health
Tip
And
my health tip of this month is simple, it's also the first rule of
Health Kinesiology – there is always a way! If you cannot get to
Rome via one road (somebody in authority has told you that you are
getting old or you can't do this and you can't do that), ask yourself
“What else is possible? Is there another road to Rome?” Yes,
there always is!
I
wish you Advent with anticipation and Christmas – full of miracles!
